Pro Domme Etiquette (Part Two)
by Mistress Simone

Okay, you’ve actually done it! Called THE MISTRESS and scheduled an appointment. Now, the first thing to do is keep it! If for any reason you have to cancel it, call! If you want to guarantee NOT seeing her when you call to reschedule, be a no-show. It is rude and inconsiderate.

Also, call if you are running late. This is as sure fire way to win brownie points. Treat this like any other appointment -be on time! Now, a few tips on how to arrive at the dungeon. On time you got. You should also be clean, neatly dressed and well-groomed. Don't have messy hair, be clean shaven, clean clothes, And USE DEODORANT! You will not have a satisfactory session if the Mistress won't touch you because you smell! Don't have food stains on your clothing or self. Also, don't go too much in the opposite direction and wear too much after shave, hair gel, etc.

When you get to her location the first thing to remember is securing your car, even if you are in a great neighborhood, take the proper precautions with your vehicle. I can't tell you how upset a Mistress will be if something happens to your car while at her place. Enter the location quietly and discreet. If you can't find the exact location, don't walk up and down the block asking her neighbors if they know where "Mistress So-so's dungeon is?" You could be putting her and you in danger. Every state has different laws about domination -so be careful.

Once in her waiting room/area, remember that you called her, not the other way around. First rule- BE RESPECTFUL!!! Greet her accordingly with the title she uses. At this point, she will let you know what is expected of you (i.e... kneel, eyes down, sit. etc.) If there is a pre interview, either at her location or a mutually agreed upon place, the same rules apply.

Do not enter her place like a storm-trooper, critiquing everything, bombarding her with questions right off the bat. Take a few minutes to let her assess you as you should also be doing. Is she what you saw in the ad? Is the dungeon clean? Are you secure in this environment? These are questions you should be asking yourself.

NOW is the time to bow out gracefully if your expectations are not met. If she is not the Mistress you saw and this lady is not suitable for you. If the place is dirty. If the two of you just don't click. Don't go through the entire session unhappy and then grouch about it online afterwards. Make your wants and fetishes known clearly and honestly up front. You have no cause for anger if you didn't tell her you liked foot worship, so all you got was a spanking. Also, be patient. Everyone can have a bad day and you may have come on it! Most respectable dommes will communicate this fact to you. They will also ask you if you have any questions before the "official" session starts. Do tell her if you have any health problems at all - it may affect your session, especially if you have bad knees or high blood pressure.

Once the session begins, the main thing to remember is that if any time at all you feel discomfort or pain (not the good kind), let her know. She will have provided you with a "safeword" to use if you wish the action to stop. She should stop immediately if you use this word. If she doesn't give you one -ask for it. If she says she doesn't use them, think about that before you go through with the session. How will you communicate to her if something is too intense? Does she care? If not, leave! I can tell when my slaves have had enough even before they can, once asked; they usually admit it was time to switch activities. Don't be brave and take it for you Mistress if it’s too much for you. I respect an honest slave a lot more than a dead and dumb one.

If you follow these simple guidelines, both you and your Mistress will enjoy the time together a lot more. You are there to experience your fetishes and are entitled to a good session, but that doesn't entitle you to be an asshole. Be respectful at all times. Enjoy, this is what you were waiting for.

Next, how to depart gracefully and let her know you appreciated it.

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